Real World Parenting Tips For Real People
When kids are at their best, your pride shines through you like a beam of light. When they’re at their worst, you feel like they’re possessed by Satan. We’ve gathered some tips and tricks from parents who have felt both ways and have learned how to deal with any situation that came their way.
When traveling with small children, consider booking two rooms with an adjoining door. This will allow you to have your child sleep in a separate room without being too far away from you. It also provides more space to unpack without baby going through the suitcases. Be sure to double-check when you make the reservation that the rooms are physically connected with a door, not just next to each other.
Spend time with your children. While there has been a movement in recent years for parents to focus on “quality time” with their children, most children simply want “quantity time”. Even if you’re not doing anything, your child enjoys being around you – savor it. In addition, spending time interacting with young children is vital to their intellectual development.
Make sure you have an appropriate first aid kit in your home. Children suffer a variety of different injuries and you want to make sure you are prepared for them. In your first aid kit, make sure to include, band aids, hydrogen peroxide, alcohol, cotton swabs, bacitracin ointment, and calamine lotion.
Never administer medication to your child for any “off-label” conditions unless the child’s doctor has given you specific written instructions to do so. Children do not always react to medication in the same way adults do. For instance, giving a child Benadryl to help induce sleep might actually have the opposite effect of hyperactivity.
Make sure your children have reflective materials on their backpacks or coats if they walk to school. You can find reflectors at hobby stores, hardware stores or your local safety coalition. This will make your child more visible to drivers and crossing guards, especially in the early morning hours.
If your child has been making frequent trips to the school nurse, only to be sent back because there is no apparent illness, he or she may be trying to avoid a classroom bully. Ask your child if he or she is having problems with a classmate; you can also directly contact your child’s teacher to determine whether there may be a troublesome conflict between another student and your child.
When you are a parent there are many times when your children will try your very last nerve. It is essential to know when to hold back your battles. You should avoid punishment during moments of anger because it is during these moments when you are most likely to say something due to the anger and not because you are helping your child.
Whether beaming or frowning, always remember that kids are doing the best they can with the resources they have. It’s your job to provide them with the tools to learn right from wrong and good from bad. So, keep up your hard work! The goal is to raise amazing adults, and there’s no question that someone who takes the time to read this article IS going to reach that goal!